If you’re looking for a way to easily make new friends, there isn’t one. Making friends takes work, and work on yourself is the first thing you’ll want to do. Really think about the qualities you would like to have in a friend and start to live those qualities yourself. If you want an optimistic, upbeat friend (and most of us do) work on becoming more optimistic. If you want someone who will be honest and loyal, work on that.
You can set trends to help with those qualities in yourself. You can write out lists of what you’d like to have in a friend and focus on the list. A very basic method, that can be done without a program, is to draw a stick person to represent a new friend, write the characteristics you’d like to have in a friend, and place the list with the chi card. I used this method without a chi generator of any kind to attract my husband. (It works for relationships as well obviously) I focused on my list multiple times a day, and in that case, I was the chi generator. My accumulated chi energy and focus energized the trend and within a month, I was dating my husband. (We’ve been married 10 years now)
A trend you can run using the original manifestation program for friendship looks like this:
In this trend:
- Main Target: This is a picture of yourself, text: your name
- Main Trend: Friendship, text: I attract new friends easily and effortlessly
- Alt. Target: Balance/Harmony, text, grounding
- Trend Environment: Optimism/Success, text: I am optimistic
- Basic Action: Self Trust, text: I am filled with confidence
- Orgone Transfer: The diagram that came with your program, printed out copy is on the chi card.
If you have the basic manifestation program there are more filters in the People Skills pack that can be helpful. As with any trend, if you feel a filter that you’ve run across will work better in one of the positions, use it. Your own intuition is important. I post templates to help get the process started, but as you progress, you’ll find that more and more often you adjust the templates to something that works better for you. That’s the way it’s supposed to work. Your intuition will guide you to appropriate filters and wording, just as my intuition guides me to what works well for me.
Go through each position in the trend and feel what it adds to the overall trend. Feel your optimism increase, feel the feelings you have when you’re hanging out with a good friend, feel your confidence soar. Think about a time that someone told you you did an awesome job on a project and you knew in your heart that you did. If you are a visual person, picture yourself hanging out with friends. If you are auditory, hear the sounds of laughter. Get as much into the feeling, sound, sights of friendship as possible and work through position by position setting the rates.
Run the trend for a few hours. Then figure out a place where you can go to possibly make new friends. A group, a club, the park, the library, a bookstore, a coffee shop. Anywhere you can think of, and go there.